男人娶什么样的女人都倒霉，女人嫁什么样的男人都吃亏

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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如今这世道不好，男人与女人之间的矛盾与战争也在不断升级，绕来绕去大家都在围绕着：房子，车子，存款，事业，家庭背景</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">未来发展前景。。。。。。一连串的现实问题展开讨论。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">当今男人骂女人现实苛刻，那只能怪他没本事，怪不得其他，当今女人企图找个有钱人就可以荣华富贵一辈子，这也只能说明此女目光短浅。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">到了新世纪女人买房成了一种时尚与流行，独立自主自立根身干事业的女人大有人在，惹得有些男人又是嫉妒又是羡慕又是自卑。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">当然这些女人可以选择单身，也可以在同等条件下找一个，谁都怕吃亏这很正常。现在的小男人越来越多，怕女人成为自己拖累的男人大有人在，夫妻搞</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">AA</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">倒制成了生活的主干。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">现实中的爱情就像同居里面的减负，真正吃亏的还是女人，弄不好进妇产科，或者跟一些垃圾男人耗费青春，然后就被甩掉了。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">到了当代，男人跟房子比起来，女人一般都会选房子而抛弃男人。就像有的女人开口闭口就跟男人提房子车子，糟男人板砖一样。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">这社会很残酷，恋爱婚姻都如此，更别提这期间的男女关系，谁不是比着在找，谁又愿意屈就与谁</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">? <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">我们先来看看男人对女人的要求：贤惠，温柔，上的厅堂下的厨房，有正当工作，长得不要太丑太矮，家境不要太差，最好自己也有房，省得离婚麻烦。。。。。。。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">等男人找到这样的女人以后，他们突然发现，自己娶什么样的女人都倒霉了：老婆太温柔他们又觉得没有野蛮味道不合社会需求，老婆太野蛮的他们又觉得自己委屈求完不是男子汉。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">老婆太漂亮他们觉得靠不住，老婆太丑他们觉得对不起自己，老婆学历高赚钱比他们多，他自卑。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">老婆赚钱少学历低他嫌弃老婆是他的负担，老婆太勤快他们做老爷久了，觉得老婆缺少魅力，老婆太懒，他们做小工时间长了，又直呼上当受骗。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">这是男人典型的吃里爬外型心理，女人也好不到那去，除了成天琢磨着找黄金单身汗以外，也是觉得自己嫁谁都委屈。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">嫁给没钱的吧遭受同龄女友的笑话《做头》里的大美人与她的丑闺蜜不是很好的例子？</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;"><br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">嫁给有钱的呢，他们又唯恐自己栓不住老公的心，美容院服装店没少花心思，遗憾的是自古男人有钱就变坏，想他安分老实，祈祷他这辈子别太穷别太有钱就好。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">往往生活的戏剧大于理想中的憧憬，所以女人不管嫁有钱还是没钱男人幸福都是参半的，遇到个好脾气的男人是女人的运气。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">遇到那种小气苛刻没风度算计的男人女人啥都别说了，给他两八掌直接走人，这种男人活在世界上只有最笨的女人才会要，家庭暴力的导火线就从这群男人开始的。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">现在不是男人与女人互相埋怨的时候，社会风气如此，女人想靠男人一步登天，还早了点现行法律规定，婚前财产为各人私有财产做不做公证都一样，还是自己努力挣银子才是大事。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">男人想靠女人一步到位升官发财也早了点，上门女婿的日子也不好做，娶个富家女，也总有些是非，让穷小子受罪。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">真正的婚姻幸福是建立在同等价值观之上的，而不是所谓的利益与欲望的纠葛，在这个世界上感情需要尊严与平等的，只有彼此在同等条件下，才不会延伸更多的倒霉与委屈。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">就如男女之间对彼此情感缺乏安全感与信任一样，因为时机不成熟，因为一个人的自卑等等因素。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">唯独发自内心的去尊重与了解一个心仪的人，才会有幸福的感觉可言，至于其他的都是假的，礼物不需要鲜花与名牌，情话不需要修饰与夸张，婚礼不需要喧嚣与隆重，简单的才是美好的。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;">
                <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">我们每个人在爱情里需要的都是心，而不是其他，在没找到有心人以前，珍惜自己努力工作，一样会寻求到内心的平静与幸福，就算找不到，在碧海蓝天的转弯处，我心依然宁静。</span>

等天晴

Sofa.[em01]

谢谢老公！

现实

冰之祭司

<p>都别结婚...都离婚吧...</p>

davidhyb

put marriage aside, to find the real soulmate of u is the ultimate target, and once u really find he/she who cares abt marriage?

等天晴

<p>LS Sounds very cool,</p><p>But feel not practice.</p>[em09]

szqking

<p>顶.....................</p><p>&nbsp;</p>[em01]

fenzi

<p>还是让我回到万恶的旧社会去吧~</p>

我是潜水猫

恩 以前门当户对 好像最好!

weeguo

<p>有经验人士说： </p><p>门当户对，好！</p>