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[此贴子已经被作者于2006-8-20 11:51:59编辑过]

灌水来了

<p>楼上的，混得好不好你自己清楚，看看你这么敏感估计你混得是不好！我起先出于一种同情和佩服在灌水，现在是什么我也不清楚了！</p><p>到了异乡楼主开始不停的回忆了，其实也说明了你自己也在比较和对照自己的生活，越比较哪种记忆更清晰你自己最清楚，还用我来帮你分析吗？</p><p>一个女人混到碰到一个灌水的男人就大呼臭男人，估计男人们也没什么好果子给你吃过，不过我想这也是活该！那么极端！</p>

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<p>&nbsp;</p>[em06]

[此贴子已经被作者于2006-8-20 11:50:05编辑过]

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<p>&nbsp;</p>[em15]

[此贴子已经被作者于2006-8-20 11:48:38编辑过]

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算了，给孩子讲故事去，讲什么呢？&lt;&lt;渔夫和金鱼&gt;&gt;的故事。。。。。。

mmouse

<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;">Hi <b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">蓝山清风</span></b><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">,<br/>
<br/>
I enjoy reading your diary. It's simple but natural. </span></b><op></op></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">I am a Singaporean and am married to a fine Malaysian
lady. And having live overseas for a few years first as a student and then as
an Engineer, I can understand the problems you are facing.<u1p></u1p></span></b><op></op></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">In order to fully appreciate and understand the local
people &amp; its culture, one must be open-minded and not to prejudge.</span></b><op></op></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">I learnt the lesson from my
own experience. And it will be greatly appreciated if you will excuse me to use
your thread to share my encounter.<br/>
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<u1p></u1p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">Let me relate an incident when I was a student in </span></b><st1city><st1place><st1city><st1place><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">Melbourne</span></b></st1place></st1city></st1place></st1city><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">. The first week of arrival in Mel is
devoted to accommodation-hunting. I answer an advertisement, fix an appt with
the owner and go to checkout the room. It is a nice suburb and I fall in love
with it immediately. Furthermore, the owner is very nice &amp; friendly.<u1p></u1p></span></b><op></op></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">The owner is a local man (white man) and he has a
partner who is away at that moment. I was told that his partner went back to </span></b><st1country-region><st1place><st1country-region><st1place><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">Taiwan</span></b></st1place></st1country-region></st1place></st1country-region><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);"> to visit “her” family for a few
weeks.<u1p></u1p></span></b><op></op></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);"><u1p></u1p>Little did I expect to find out that “her”
is not her but a “he”. How did I find out? On the second day of moving in, I
ask the owner to lend me his PC to surf the net and guess what I discover? I
discovered pictures of naked men. Then it hits me, the owner is gay. <u1p></u1p></span></b><op></op></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);"><u1p></u1p>I have never encountered gay in my life in </span></b><st1country-region><st1place><st1country-region><st1place><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">Singapore</span></b></st1place></st1country-region></st1place></st1country-region><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);"> although I know they exist. The only
time I encountered them in </span></b><st1country-region><st1place><st1country-region><st1place><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">Singapore</span></b></st1place></st1country-region></st1place></st1country-region><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);"> is from the mainstream media and as
such they seem so distant from me.<u1p></u1p></span></b><op></op></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">It was a culture shock to me. Did I pack up and runaway?
No, I had a good talk with the owner and guess what? My stay with them is one
of the more memorable moments I had of </span></b><st1city><st1place><st1city><st1place><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">Melbourne</span></b></st1place></st1city></st1place></st1city><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">.</span></b><op></op></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">End of story. Hope you enjoy it. Come to think of it, the
whole thing was really hilarious.<op></op></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">Finally, I wish you all the best in your marriage and
welcome to </span></b><st1country-region><st1place><st1country-region><st1place><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">Singapore</span></b></st1place></st1country-region></st1place></st1country-region><b><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: rgb(97, 183, 19);">.<u1p></u1p></span></b><op></op></p>

蓝山清风

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>机缘巧合</i>在2006-8-14 20:55:00的发言：</b><br/><p>蓝山可不要打退堂鼓，你的日子很有意思的。</p><p>而且，记日记是生活认真地表现，若干年后再看自己的日记，宛如看着自己成长一样，多有趣啊。</p></div><p></p><p>谢谢你, 话虽如此, 但是我也想过记回纸上.</p><p>但是想想,我自己总是在渴望认识多一些人,主动点总是好,先把自己的生活摊出来.</p><p>我还没有那么脆弱,呵呵, 只是觉得我的生活是那么的普通,再三在这里说,也许给别人带来不屑的感觉,心里也是怯怯的. 但是乐趣还是多的....</p><p>谢谢你咯.... </p>

beijingdeyun

<p>蓝山清风你的乐观使人欣慰，开心过一生，不开心也过一生，这一生当然要选择开心。我在这祝福你，愿你的生活越来越好。</p><p>再见。</p>

蓝山清风

<br /><br />以下是引用<i>beijingdeyun</i>在2006-8-15 14:16:00的发言：楼上的那位男士说的有道理，蓝山清风的博格对那些还抱着想嫁过来过好日子的中国女孩起警戒作用，在哪里钱少日子都难过，吃点东西都要琢磨半天。
Thanks. Actually the main reason for writing it is for MYSELF, not for anybody else. For those 抱着想嫁过来过好日子的中国女孩 it can't 警戒作用, everybody is an adult, you can't change them.&nbsp;I don't have this duty to it. And everybody has different cases, I do see many Chinese marry rich Singaporean, that' s their fate. I only want to express myself and mark down my life. Anyway, it's over. I think it's ok to stop now.

beijingdeyun

<p>楼上的那位男士说的有道理，蓝山清风的博格对那些还抱着想嫁过来过好日子的中国女孩起警戒作用，在哪里钱少日子都难过，吃点东西都要琢磨半天。</p><p>但对木已成舟的人来说，只有咬着牙走下去，因为是自己的选择。那位男士你不应该再给她们泼冷水，只能希望她们活得开心，一路走好。</p><p>楼上那位女士像泼妇一样骂人，真有失大雅。用最肮脏的话骂人，只能显得毫无修养。如果认识你的人肯定会躲着你，就像人被狗咬，人总不能去咬狗，只能躲狗。</p>